“, you wind up attracting a specific variety of woman. ” Actually that doesn’t benefit some guys since it assumes there are ladies who are actually interested in (and therefore pursue) them. In my own situation, i’ve never approached a female with no girl has ever pursued me – and so I never have had even one date in my own entire life. Dudes we are chronically involuntarily single like me have to just accept that we’re unable to attract women of any type no matter what. Attraction just isn’t a selection – women don’t ‘decide’ maybe not to be interested in me – they simply aren’t and that’s simply the way it really is. I’m drawn to a lot of women, but won’t ever approach one because i understand they might not be drawn to me – they can’t make it also it’s not their fault. I just wish one woman might be drawn to me – that’s all.